Another simple and yet awkward 5 days had happen to me this week... Meet my friend! "rejection". Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and even Saturday. All these days sum up to the lessons about this word that came from other sources of people talking to me in some advice and some perspective of their own life. The lesson begun on a hot and intense monday, when me and Jan were going to BO's Cafe at Ayala. The two of us were talking about ladies around Ayala. Mostly 90% of the girls we are observing is tremendously beautiful or shall we say in bisaya as "chicks". I suddenly had a sword stuck at my mind when I remembered of a friend I can't say by name had a very beautiful lady at his hands and him had a very beautiful hair. (hahahaha) I really can't understand how that happen. I ask jan, "Jan why are there ladies and gents that just aren't comprehensible? Or shall we say not equal?". Jan laughed hardly... "Your just jealous from what he has.. Son, I have to say to you that its not what you think the girls think the same." Jan paused for an air and said, "let me put you through this... Is your friend with that girl for long?" and I answered, "yeah, I even thought that the girl wouldn't like him at all because she was taller." Jan smiled, "did the guy courted her?" and I answered "yup, maybe many times though before she got an answer "Yes". Jan said, well that's the answer... How many times would you court a girl and then give up? I mean I only do it once... I give up!!! And thats the very reason why we guys do not get what we want because we give up. In business... This lesson is such a true statement. When you get rejected by the person you wanted to help with the business. Would you give up on the business? NO!!! This world is full of rejection, and this thing is the one blinding us from opportunities because we are afraid to be rejected!!! But the Truth is... When you don't give up. The answer comes right away. And when you got rejected. You don't lose something. You might even gain something.
